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Carla Escot, Burnout Coach

My story

I'm coach Carla. I work with leaders to help them get out of burnout and into a life by designing, on their own terms.

Hi, I'm Carla. I am an ICF ACC-credentialed coach based in Singapore, and I coach in English and Spanish. Before coaching, I spent two decades in events management and show production: world tours, festivals, major corporate and sports events. I work with leaders around the world who have been coping for too long with burnout, and are ready to move into a life by design instead.

Nobody should have to go through burnout. Not for a career. Not for a title. Not for anyone or anything. The truth is burnout isn't a price to pay for anything, it simply is a message that some things need to change. Having lived it for years myself, I decided to stop the silence, and find a way out of it that lasts.

Carla Escot

How I got here

The day my body went on strike

For two decades I was the person you called for high-stakes events: world tours, large corporate stages, festivals, sports events. In 2024, on what felt like a typical day, I was at Formula 1 Grand Prix, four days in without sleep after months without a day off. My legs suddenly gave out. I was on stage right, and I dropped to the floor. My legs refused to stand up, my vision was foggy, and my hearing distorted. I couldn't believe my body wasn't responding as commanded. The audience saw a flawless show that day. Nobody knew the woman they called boss behind the scenes was breaking down from exhaustion, numb, making mistakes so basic they embarrassed her decades of experience. By then my health was gone, my closest relationships were broken, and the business I'd built was fraying.

In the weeks after, I was deeply shaken. Everything felt wrong: pushing my body this far, risking my reputation, my career, my health beyond repair. I felt numb towards everything I had built and achieved. The praises didn't land. The life I was living had been built on dreams I'd set in my early twenties, and I was still carrying them into my late thirties, long after they'd stopped fitting. I never found time to pause and notice that, till this point. I was just, successfully surviving.

So for the first time, I took a different approach. I reduced the workload, and in that space I finally looked at my life. I saw what self-sacrifice had actually cost me, how not listening to myself had slowly eroded everything I actually valued. I realised burnout as a lifestyle is no way of living, not necessary, and most importantly, *not what I wanted*.

I wasn't sure what a different life could look like; events around the clock were all I knew. I decided to find my way out of burnout, and take the risk. Along the way I trained as a coach, and as I slowed down and reflected, I began to hear myself clearly for the first time. I understood what I was made of, what I wanted and didn't want, my core values, and how to make choices that actually served them. Everything began to align, and a life I had chosen, rather than inherited, started to take shape. With that, burnout was inevitably left behind, for good. That is the life I live now, and it finally fits.

I lived inside burnout for years, and getting out was the most powerful, rewarding thing I've ever done, which drives me to extend that possibility to others. When I hear your story, I get it. I recognise the pattern and the human experience underneath. I know how much energy it takes to keep it invisible, and how much courage it takes to talk about it, ask for help, or even choose change. What I bring is knowing the crossing from surviving to designing life is possible, because I've made it myself. That's why I can sit alongside you without judgement, and listen with care, as we find your way through.

Why I do this

The opposite of burnout is alignment.

Alignment is when the life you are living matches who you actually are. It is not about having it all figured out, or getting rid of stress, or being permanently calm. It is about taking ownership of the foundation that holds your life: your values, your beliefs, your definition of a good life. When that foundation is aligned, everything you build on top of it holds. When it is not, you burn out, because the decisions you are making and the way you are living do not serve who you are. Instead, they serve someone else's shape of a good life: a career that fits your parents' expectations, a lifestyle that keeps up with friends who are also depleted, a definition of success you never actually chose.

If you are still surviving inside the same patterns, wondering why no amount of rest resets you, or why changing circumstances does not help, there is a way across. I walk alongside people like you making that crossing, from recurrent burnout to a life they design on their own terms. Nobody should have to figure this out alone. That is why I coach.

Carla Escot at a table with her laptop and notebook, listening

What it's actually *like* working with me

Warm, direct, and non-judgemental.

I bring warmth and directness in equal measure. I will not perform for you, and I will not pretend. What you say stays between us. What you notice, we look at together. What is honest, I will tell you, even when it is uncomfortable.

The room is calm, but it is not soft. There is care in it, and there is challenge. You will be met exactly where you are, and you will also be asked to look at things you may have been avoiding. Nothing is forced. Everything is invited.

This is not a place for quick fixes or motivational push. I offer a place for slowing down enough to see what has actually been going on, to see how deeply burnout has entangled itself in your life, to listen to yourself and for shaping what you want to build next. If that is what you are looking for, we will get along.

Credentials

Why you can trust the work

ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) · ICF Member

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  • ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC)
  • ICF member
  • Based in Singapore, working with clients worldwide

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